Family Matters

Some brides are struggling with a duality of emotions when it comes to involving family in their wedding plans. It’s a fine line between help and “hindrance” when it’s time to make important decisions with family input. Recently, I learned from several brides that they do want some level of family involvement. Most thought “from a distance” was the best way they could MANAGE their participation. But, what I found even more interesting was a totally different “family” concern.

Many were really concerned whether the actual wedding date/time/location would be comfortable AND convenient for their relatives. They also brought up issues related to the venue location, hotel accommodations, and ease and/or expense of travel for out-of-town family/guest.

Brides have a right to be concerned. While it’s your day, your family is still an important part of what makes your wedding day so special. So, here are just a few things to consider:

A Fly on the Wall

A week ago today, I attended a bridal panel event held by the Triangle Bridal Association (TBA) at the Cardinal Club in Raleigh, NC. While I am not a current member, I sent a request to the coordinators of the event to participate as “a fly on the wall.” TBA graciously agreed to allow me to come, and while the location was a few hours away (in the middle of the week), I pressed my way because I didn’t want to miss the opportunity to hear directly from the decision makers – the brides – regarding some of their current issues, concerns, and/or expectations.  

Here’s what I learned: